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After being here awhile, I've learned, there's just no telling what you'll find here on the site or my blog any given day.
Fun and blog friendship is why I am here.
Sometimes I'm serious, sometimes a silly goof. Eclectic would be a good word to describe my blog. I'm a blogger that writes about my life & observations, whatever they may be that day. What you see is what you get...I'm a southern girl currently living in So California. As a RN, in a committed long distance relationship, like most folks, I stay extremely busy, so I blog as time permits...I have tons of fun here, so come on in. Feel free to jump in the conversation. I look forward to getting to know you.
Welcome to my little corner of blogland, and thanks for stopping by. |
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This made me happy!
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May 16, 2012 10:12 pm
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I went to the gym last night. (About damn time... ) When a local Marine got out of his SUV while I was chatting on the phone, this is what I saw.
I love my country, and I am so grateful for those that serve. 
I never appreciated this nearly as much until I moved to this area.
As a nurse working in a hospital not terribly far from Camp Pendleton, I could tell you triumphant and tragic stories that could make you shiver....
Anyway...
To the young Marine who'll never know how much this touched me, I'm so happy you are home too!
Welcome back!
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HNW...Bed Head
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May 15, 2012 9:49 pm
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This isn't quite the HNW Bloopers I planned, but it seems I've misplaced my thumb drive. Imagine that, right?..Anyway,this definitely is not my best pic, but I'm back to work tomorrow so won't be around much for a few days. Thus, I needed to post tonight.
When it comes to the time just before playtime, I've always wondered what others really like best...
For the GUYS, do you prefer:
1. A woman in jeans that fit perfect for her shape and heels?
2. A woman adorned in a soft nightie?
3. A woman decked out in a sexy naughty ?
4. A woman without any clothes, naked and in all her natural beauty for only you to see?
5. A woman decked out in business attire and perfect heels?
For the GIRLS...before playtime, do you prefer:
1.Your lover to be naked and fully accessible?
2. A man in his undies and a t shirt?..Now I'm really being nosy...What kind of undies do you like on a man? Boxers or briefs?
3. Your lover, freshly showered and in a towel only?
4. A man in great fitting jeans and a terrific smile?
5. A man in a sharp classy business suit?
If other, please share.
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12 Ideas on How to Avoid Boring Sex...
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May 15, 2012 6:37 pm
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I have my first e-reader. My old girl eyes are SOOOO happy. I'm currently reading several books, including a new one called Intimacy and Desire. It's discussing how couples in long term relationships face sexual desire issues regardless of how committed they are or how well they communicate. The basis is that the normal conflict within ltr's are the culprit of what squashes intimacy & desire...I'm just starting it, so this is not a recommendation. It's just the impetus for this post.
While I wait to see if the author hits his mark,I fully realize that every night is not going to be wild monkey sex. But I learned when I was married, I don't want to end up with a stale sex life again. 
So being a practical girl, here are some ideas on how to keep things new and fresh, while hopefully avoiding getting into the rut that leads to boring *lights off* sex. 
1. Keep an open mind. We all have limits, but stretching just a little can tap into the erotic recesses where passion and desire explodes....Be naughty!...Feeling naughty bonds a couple and leaves you laughing your asses off afterwards saying..."Can you believe we just f*cking did that?"
2. If you don't have ideas on how to spice things up (which happened to me when I was married), watch porn, or read erotica for ideas. I'm not a big fan of erotica, but the Penthouse books definitely put some steamy ideas together.
3. Wear a bright red lipstick for giving him oral. *Save it for naughty nights*...Give him a visual he won't forget. Meanwhile if you feel like a brazen sexual vixen who shamelessly wants her man in every way, it turns up the heat...to level 31...Slutty is good when you're his slut.
4. Buy a bondage kit and have it waiting put out on the bed for your partner (or you) to use.
5. Keep a few special secrets in the bag so you can surprise your lover. Keep him/her guessing.
6. Explore and research toys...solo and together. Have you ever thought of getting your sweetie a vibe or asking for one? I want a We 3 vibe someday. What about an anal vibe? Do your homework...Your orgasms and sex life will soar!!
7. Roleplay... teacher/student, boss/secretary, cop/speed demon, King/beautiful slave girl, Domme/sub,Cleopatra/Rugged Guard, Pocahantas/John Smith...who later became Lady Rebecca Rolfe...the list is endless. Be anyone you want to be. Bring to life your fantasies...
8. Theme Nights...Sensual Sunday...Fuck Me Right here Right Now Friday...Steak & BJ night...Make love Monday...Hand Job Night...
9. Lust is where your sweetie is...Don't wait for *bed time*...That weight bench is screaming to be fucked on. You know it is. Have you ever considered 69 or reverse cowgirl with the weight bench inclined?...Just a thought....EVERY piece of furniture in your home is a potential sex toy. The kitchen chair can be for reverses cowgirl and the kitchen sink is for more than just dishes...Just sayin... Be creative.
10. Surprise your lover on a random Tuesday, naked and kneeling or favorite nightie as soon as he walks in the door. Or...for the guys, get all soaped up in the shower, and send a pic teasing your girl hinting at what you have in store for her. We like to be mind fucked first.... A sexy man in the shower is HOT!!!!
11. Get a mirror for the bedroom and shamelessly watch as you please and pleasure each other.It can be an investment like no other. I learned about this from having mirrored closet doors for the first time in my life here in Cali. I will ALWAYS have a mirror in my bedroom now. OMFG It keeps things on FIRE as you watch your lover take you or as your girl goes down on you.
12. Read books to learn how to change up your technique on oral sex...Does your lover love being deep throated? There are books that teach different techniques that allow you to bring NEW back to your bedroom.
13. Cum play...It's erotic....however, you define it.
None of these ideas are earth shatteringly new. But it's really easy to get in a rut. Before you know it, things are stale. Keep it fun and fresh. And while these ideas may not work for you, that's okay. Find your version of fun, fresh, and naughty!
Enjoy and happy perving my friends!
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What's going on with the site?
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May 15, 2012 1:14 pm
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For the last 2 days I've had emails lost, comments would not post, and for a while yesterday, the blogs were completely down. I could read other blogger's posts, but my blog page said Future blog of Softsheets. An hour later, my blog reappeared as if nothing happened.
Is anyone else noticing this stuff or is it maybe just on the west coast?
Lastly, what do you think about the new videos on the main page and new Hot viewer with a Like button?...
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Services I wish the grocery store offered
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May 15, 2012 12:23 pm
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1. I wish my grocery list would sync with the cash register, so when I forget the ONE THING I desperately needed in my *BIG* shopping trip, the cash register would
DING DING DING...Psssttt...Hey,you forgot trash bags and TP.
2. I wish the bathrooms were not at the back of the store.... in the ice cold refrigerated section. Just sayin!
3. I wish the produce dept put directions on how to tell if common fruit is ripe. I know certain things like pineapple. But I can never remember how to tell if a watermelon or cantaloupe is ripe, or needs another week to ripen. If I cut it too soon, it goes to waste. This really burns me up.
4. I wish there weren't displays in the middle of aisle for me to trip over like yesterday with 20 boxes of Swiss Miss Hot Cocoa falling on my head in front of the world to see. Safety people!!! *Sheesh*
Well, I'm off to the store to get trash bags and TP!
Do you remember grocery day being your favorite day as a kid? What was your favorite treat you always looked forward to? For me...it was Little Debbie's Oatmeal Pies...Mmmm...
Do you have a favorite treat now?
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Rock, Paper, Scissors....Blow Job??
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May 14, 2012 10:21 am
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When it comes to simple disputes, Rock, Paper, Scissors is a good way to settle an argument with kids.
I thought you might enjoy a grown up version.
Which do you normally pick?...rock? paper? or scissors?
Do you have a favorite way to settle disputes?
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May Gray, June Gloom
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May 14, 2012 10:02 am
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P.S. I deleted my briarpatch post. Heartfelt thanks for the kind supportive comments. I really have missed you too, but talking about my sister was just too personal to leave up. Funny, I have no problem with posting my face pics, but some subjects leave me feeling over exposed. That topic is one of them. Seriously big hugs and deepest thanks. Your words meant alot, and it really does feel good to be back....Back to my real post topic.
We have a weather pattern in Southern California that's referred to as May Gray and June Gloom. It's when the marine cloud layer rolls in overnight leaving the mornings cloudy and overcast. It creates a great atmosphere for snuggling up with a good book. (I'm currently reading 50 Shades of Grey right now...OMG...HOT HOT HOT)
But I digress. The clouds typically burn off so the afternoons are warm & sunny, which is how I like it best. I've always wanted to go to Seattle, but I don't think I'd want to live anywhere that was always cloudy or rainy. It's just too depressing, and I don't get near as much done when the weather is gloomy. I like staying on the go, but with the weather overcast, it tends to make me sluggish and lackadaisical.
Do you find the weather affects your mood and activity level?
Do you have any remarkable weather patterns that makes your area interesting?
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I love arched stained glass windows
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May 13, 2012 8:27 pm
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While I'm not a fan of tiffany style lamps or the stuffy ornate stained glass windows we see in churches, I do love a pretty arched stained glass window. I especially love them above an entry way or in a master bathroom. I will have a stained glass piece for my home someday. Nothing big or ostentatious, but I do think they brighten a room.
I also love nice trim and pretty door frames. Did I tell you I once had 2 miter boxes and learned how to install crown moulding all by myself, from the HOW to book from Home Depot?...I am scared shitless of power saws, so it took me countless practice pieces....a measly ole month and a half to get one room done, but I did it!!
Crown moulding is probably the hardest DIY job I ever did. It looks easy enough and really pretty, but the angles and calculations were a nightmare! I'm pretty sure my mouth should have gotten washed out with soap with all the bad words I used on that project...I mean, the REALLY big bad words that you only think in your head when you jubilantly cut the final piece to 1/32", just to find you cut the wrong angle ...But I did a pretty damn good job for a newbie. Thank heavens for my handy dandy caulk gun to hide those itsy bitsy gaps that jumped out and screamed...OOPSY
Are you a DIY person or do you prefer to call a professional?
What's the toughest job you ever tackled?
P.S. The site refused to load the bathroom arched window I had. No clue why, but here goes the best I could get approved.
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Who was your favorite Bat Man Villian?
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May 13, 2012 6:37 pm
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Not too long ago, I did a post on the best James Bond bad guy...EVER...
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But there's another series I grew up with that I loved even more....BATMAN!!! ...Just like Star Wars, I'm old school with my TV super heroes , which means I'm a fan of the 1960's series with Adam West His uniform wasn't snazzy like the newer bad ass Batman's, but he had a certain charm that always left me feisty and wanting to go kick bad guy butt!
Is it wrong that I loved ALL the bad guys too? 
And... Cat Woman.... was purrfectly lovely.
*Mama Mia*
I bet you boys just loved Bat Girl didn't you?...C'mon, you can tell me. Did you know she was Commissioner Gordon's daughter and had her doctorate in library science? Yep...Beauty and brains!
But back to the fun stuff...BAD GUYS...*wrings hands together with an evil grin*...
For the record, why do we not have an evil grin smiley???
Personally, I could never decide who was my favorite Batman bad guy...If I had to nail it down, I was always torn most between The Riddler and The Joker....But this is a toughie.
Who's your favorite Batman Villian?
What was your favorite BatMan gadget?....
I think I liked the Batman Beacon in the sky...
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National Lingerie Day
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Apr 24, 2012 6:58 am
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Yay!!!
Today is National Lingerie Day! How awesome is that!
I didn't even know we had a National Lingerie Day til I got an email from my favorite Naughty Nightie Store. So, I went to the googly place and confirmed that it's legit, and not just a scam to get me to buy more fishnets. 
I learned there are quite a few Romantic Holidays, so I thought I'd share the upcoming Romance calendar through May.
April 28...Kiss your mate day....
May is Date Your Mate Month
May 4 Relationship Renewal Day
May 5 Significant Other Day
May 14 Online Romance Day
I met  online, so I'm a firm believer online romance can turn into something meaningful...against all odds....and from a sex site. Who knew such a thing could happen?
This pic is my way of celebrating National Lingerie Day. To be honest, I'm not entirely sure without HNW I would have met my sweetie due to distance.
So, let's really enjoy HNW this week... flirt shamelessly with each other, and enjoy the fun this site offers.
Happy National Lingerie Day Everyone!
XOXOX
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Picnic treats
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Apr 23, 2012 6:24 pm
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One of my blog friends is having a picnic soon. Here's a fun treat I thought would be tasty in or out of the bedroom...Good weather not required.
Best part is....No cooking is required and all prep work can be done the night before.
STRAWBERRY KABOBS
You can make a gazillion variations depending on what treats your partner does or doesn't like.
If I was having a picnic with DG...I'd use Krispy Kreme donut holes in place of the Lil Debbie Swiss Rolls.
If I was making them for me and Mr.Hottie, then I'd use pound cake, banana slices, and pineapple....drizzled in chocolate syrup. Everything is better with pineapple and chocolate, right?
Oh yeah...and whip cream.
Lots and lots of whip cream... A little here...a little over there...You get the idea!
So, let's perv this post up a bit...
Have you ever had a sensual picnic? More importantly...
Do you believe in the pineapple juice theory?
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A day off with Soft..
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Apr 23, 2012 2:25 pm
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Coffee, feed kitties their breakfast yum yum & a quick check in the blogs is how I start most mornings...
Today my day started with a 8am Mandatory Charge Nurse meeting. Now to add insult to injury, it was a chilly & drizzly *perfect for sleeping in* kind of morning....It was also my only day off this week since I just worked all weekend.
So, I showed my appreciation for the early Monday morning meeting by contributing....and boy, did I contribute.....Yeah...I was *THAT* person...You know... the one who never shuts up...I don't know what got into me. Normally, I wanna kick the person who drags the meeting out. But what can I say, I guess I was in a Chatty Cathy mood.
Tomorrow is skills lab at work so I'll be studying to brush up on some things we rarely do in my dept like temporary pacemakers.
This afternoon I'm baking a German chocolate cake for the staff who are working tomorrow. They're gonna be short staffed with skills labs. Cake makes everything better. Don'tcha think???
What I really want to do today is snuggle up on the couch and watch American Pie and take a nice nap. Cloudy days are meant for napping if you ask me.  .....
It's cloudy here and my place has a chill, so I'd love to be napping on this sunny beach if I could.
Are you a person who likes to snuggle?
What would you like to do if you had a free day off and could do anything you wanted?
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